Livin' La Needle Loca

...that's what we did this weekend. In a continuation of our anniversary celebration, we took a three-day trip to Bodega Bay. It's only 2.5 hours from home, so it's an easy drive. We stayed at our favorite hotel, The Inn at the Tides , and enjoyed another fabulous Winemaker dinner on Friday night. We've been going to this hotel for over 15 years, and have been to at least 10 Winemaker dinners. It was fitting that we celebrated our 20th anniversary there. The weather was rainy on Saturday, but it didn't matter. It was just nice to kick back and enjoy the sounds of the ocean and the rain, and not think about work, email, IM, and the telephone. I used the drive time to get some stitching in (LOL) - I finished my sparkly black and silver shawl (and wore it to the dinner), finished a small cross stitch project, and finished my first pair of knitted socks! We took the long way home on Sunday so we could enjoy the good weather that returned. It was a wonderful, restful we...

Today is our 20th wedding anniversary, and our 25th anniversary of being together. Wow! Where did the time go? We had both been married before, so we approached our relationship carefully, plus there was my daughter to consider. So we lived together for five years before committing to marriage. By the time we did marry, everything seemed right for us, and our daughter was happy. My husband is a wonderful guy who gives me time by myself, encourages my creativeness, and is incredibly supportive. When I was overweight, he never made rude comments or made me feel bad about it. He just loves me for being me. And because of that, I am free to be me , not someone else's vision of me. Another wonderful gift from my husband!

Hooray! After 5 or 6 years (could be longer...) I have finally finished the needlpoint UFO with the white background. Put the last stitch in [late] last night! So what is it? It is a needlepoint canvas of two kokopellis against a Southwestern background. The design is by the late Tish Holland and comes from Sundance Designs. There is an option of adding a few copper beads to the kokopellis, but I'm not sure I want to do that. I like it the way it is right now. All that's left to do is block it and frame it! (Much easier than doing white background!) I'm not sure whether this finish will completely unblock my stitching blahs, but it at least has me looking at my UFOs. Next up, another needlepoint UFO with a white background...I have far too many of these!

OK, after all that whining about not stitching, I actually did some today. Granted, it's still not cross stitch, but at least it involved needle and floss! For the last couple of days, I've been trying to "prime the pump" (more or less). I've been working on updating my website with more project pictures. I've been really bad about taking pictures of my completed stitching and quilting projects, or I've taken really bad pictures of stuff--I can't win! (I figured if I looked at all those great pieces I had already finished, maybe it would inspire me to start stitching again.) Anyway, someone in the office suggested scanning projects as an option, at least for the flat stuff. So, I went looking for flat pieces to scan, and gee, who-da-thunk, I found a needlepoint UFO. I must have started this 5 or 6 years ago. It's a Southwestern painted canvas with speciality threads and stitches. All it needs is the final part of the background, and then I reali...

I love to cross stitch and needlpoint, I really do. But (you knew there was a big "but" in there, didn't you?) lately I just haven't been in a stitching mood. I usually don't stitch much around the holidays simply because I have too much other stuff to do. However, the last thing I stitched was back in October when I finished a bunch of small Halloween kits from Pine Mountain and Shepherd's Bush. The only other stitching I did during the year was in 3 days in April at the Burbank Cross Stitch Festival, 2 days in July (on vacation), and a few days in September. Most of the year I knitted, worked on several quilts, and made a bunch of soap. I'm not sure why I'm in such a stitching slump. I have tons of wonderful cross stitch projects kitted and ready to stitch, so it's not lack of materials. I have all the necessary stitching tools (read: more than I need), so that's not it. I just can't seem get into it again. I think the only reason I sti...

After surviving a first marriage that wasn't the best, I learned something about myself (let's face it, I learned a lot about myself, but I digress...): I really need to be by myself once in a while. If I don't get my alone time, I get really cranky. I need time to recharge and not worry about the normal, everyday stuff. The good part is that my [2nd] husband understands and lets me have the time I need. He also needs time for himself, so it works well for both of us. This is one of the great things about our relationship - we understand that we each need space. We recognize that we don't need to joined at the hip to show that we love each other. We each have our own interests and encourage each other to pursue those interests. Don't get me wrong, we do share a lot of interests and do spend time with each other; it's just that we don't need to do that 24/7. So, this weekend is one of those "space" weekends. He's gone off for an overnight, to ...

I was talking to a friend yesterday about the different kinds of music people love and hate. She really doesn't like hip-hop or rap, but loves heavy metal. I, on the other hand, like a lot of the hip-hop and rap stuff my daughter listens to, and don't particularly care for heavy metal. It started me thinking about how different my tastes are from others "my age." I don't know about you, but when I was in my teens and 20s, I thought people in their 50s were pretty old -- you know, staid, conservative, not open to new ideas, dressing really matronly, the whole "when I was your age..." and "I walked 15 miles to school in the snow..." mentality. Well, here I am on the other side of 50, and I am nothing like that. I have not magically become a matronly, OLD person. OK, so occasionally, my mother's voice comes out of my mouth, but for the most part I think I'm still pretty young. Maybe it comes from having my (only) kid 10 years later than mo...